Im a ballet dancer and i have dance classes like 4 times a week....does stretching almost everyday and being flexible affect how wide or lose my vagina is? and keeping in mind im not sexually active at all.. my bf was my 1st but when it happened he thinks i lied to him by saying i was a virgin..he said it seemed too "open"?..
Does dancing ballet or stretching your legs a lot affect your vagina's looseness %26amp; your not sexually active?getting late
First, I want to say that I am so sorry that this happened to you. I had a similar experience, and it was very hurtful when someone who I cared about and trusted with something that intimate and special asked me if I had lied to him. I hope that you are not blaming yourself or thinking there is something wrong with you, and I am going to give you some information that I hope will help both you and your boyfriend understand how the body works a little more.
There is a common myth that women who have not had sex all how "tight" vaginas, and that it can be stretched through sex or other activities. Women's vagina canals vary in size just like men's penis size. Some women are going to have a wider vaginal canal than others, and thus there may be less friction during sex than those who have narrower canals. Or your boyfriend is a bit narrower as some other posters have suggested. There are somethings (like childbirth) that can cause a woman's vaginal canal to stetch and not return to it's original size, but ballet is not one of those things.
It may also not have nothing to do with the physical build of either of your bodies. If your body provided a lot of lubrication naturally or you used a lubricated condom then there may have been a minimum of friction, which is also something that contributes to what people think is being "tight." (I am going to hope you used a condom. If not please do so in the future just for everyone's safety) The myth that women who have not had sex before have "tighter" vaginas is also perpetuated by the fact that often when women have thier first penetration experience they are not lubricated enough which can cause pain and possibly tearing. Being nervous, not having enough foreplay, or naturally being a women that lubricates less than others can contribute to this friction.
Now having all this information, I would suggest trying to sit down with him and explaining all of this in a non-sexual context and in a non confrontational way. Don't sit there and tell him that it is obviously that he has a small penis (men can get very threatened by that). Tell him that it you don't appreciate him accusing you of lying, and that you sought out some information to help you explian things so that you both understand what is going on with your bodies. Just give the facts. If it was a positive and enjoyable experience for you, you can even say that the fact that you were very turned on and so your body was relaxed enough to do what it is supposed to do. (the vagian canal is very elastic and should easliy be able to strech to accomodate an average sized or somewhat larger penis, given the right amont of lubricaton and foreplay.) By telling him this you can say that it was a really good experience and that he was a really good partner who made you turned on.
If he is not willing to listen to the realities that make up the ways sexual experiences can vary, and continues to believe that you are lying to him, then you might want to think about whether this is a positive and healthy relationship.
This can be a hard conversation to have, but you owe it to yourself to be as informed as you can and to do your best to talk to your partner and share that information.
Good Luck.
Does dancing ballet or stretching your legs a lot affect your vagina's looseness %26amp; your not sexually active?regal theater opera theater
I have to say this is the strangest question I've seen on here in a long time...
I don't think it would affect...that...much, if at all.
Sorry fellow guys, he most likely had a very small penis and that is what he said that...he would probably get beaten by a baby carrot...your not the one with the problem...dam!
No, that's completely ridiculous. Your ballet would most certainly not affect your vagina. Nothing will make it "wider' so tell your boyfriend to stop whining.
Yeah, your boyfriend's probably just a bit smaller than average. But no, no worries; while it is possible for a girl to break her own hymen by strenuous activity or a decently hard fall, it's still not likely, and you can only stretch your vagina by sticking some pretty huge things up there.
I ride horses, and I know that's a common problem among horseback riders- girls slam down on the saddle and it breaks them. It's not exactly dangerous, just a bit embarrassing.
I wouldn't worry about it. Average penis size among American males is about five and a half to six inches; I'd say you're probably just a bit bigger either than he's used to, or he's just smaller than average. I wouldn't worry about it too much; girls vary just as much as guys do in that department, and girls can be too tight as well as too loose.
Strangest question on this board ever.... anyway, your bf is full of shite (like he is some kind of gynecological "expert"). Dancing DOES NOT affect the dimensions of your private parts.
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